Better icebreakers

The worst part of most introductory meetings is when you go around in a circle....

Can’t Answer, What’s Next? Three Questions to Ask

One of the worst questions humans ask each other is, "So, what's next?" I know what you'd like to do after being asked this question. Sure, throwing an appetizer from your graduation party at that person's head might sound like a good idea, but it makes it much harder to write a thank you...

Hiding Behind the Responsibility of “Do No Harm”

One of my values, and the values of Those Stories, is to limit harming other people. I even attempt to ignore online trolls, but that is difficult. Of course, this value has many exceptions, including holding influential people accountable and calling out immoral behavior. When you’re telling stories, starting a business or creating art,...

A Story as the Result of a Question

Our brain makes the connection between stories and questions. In conversation, stories become the result of a question. Sometimes people ask us, ‘have you ever been in a similar situation?’ Then, our brain searches for any relevant story. More often, it’s our brain that asks the question. As our friend tells us a story,...

Publishing is Letting Go of the Balloon

It can be scary to send your work off into the world—this is true for all stories. When you’re updating your company’s messaging or sending out an Instagram post, there is apprehension about what will happen on the other side of the chasm. What will people think? Stories take on a life of their...