The Worst Parking Lot Apology

“You just have to apologize,” I said to Wally as we walked out of Target and headed for the parking lot. “I’ve never been great at apologies,” Wally said. “Can I just send chocolate or wine or something?” “After the story you told me, you cannot just send wine,” I said. Wally’s crime was...

Hiding Behind the Responsibility of “Do No Harm”

One of my values, and the values of Those Stories, is to limit harming other people. I even attempt to ignore online trolls, but that is difficult. Of course, this value has many exceptions, including holding influential people accountable and calling out immoral behavior. When you’re telling stories, starting a business or creating art,...

A Story as the Result of a Question

Our brain makes the connection between stories and questions. In conversation, stories become the result of a question. Sometimes people ask us, ‘have you ever been in a similar situation?’ Then, our brain searches for any relevant story. More often, it’s our brain that asks the question. As our friend tells us a story,...